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Switching off your mind

Running away from our responsibilities and reality by switching of our minds, either by resorting to drugs and alcohol or by just doing what you’re told and not think too much, is a curious phenomena.

For a long time in history this behavior made sense. If you were slaving away as a factory worker in the 19th century, just making enough to survive, you had good reasons to want to forget about the harsh reality. Especially if your only alternative to carrying on this though life is starvation. Even now, if you don’t live the kind of life you really want to, it makes intuitive sense to try to forget about it.

However, nowadays we have a choice. When we run away from responsibility we give away control. The more we avoid it the less control over our lives we have. In effect it ensures we stay in the situation we try to forget about.

Only by facing reality head on, and using our minds to take full responsibility, we can actually do something about our situation. Instead of trying to forget about our every day lives we can take steps towards creating a life we don’t have to flee from.

Our destiny is in our hands, as long as we take full responsibility of our lives. If we don’t we place our lives are in the hands of fate. This is not living, it’s merely existing. Surviving.

You work for the weekend, where you party and drink to forget about your week to do it all over again the week after. One day you’ll wake up and wonder where the last 40 years have gone. Is this really the best you can do? Of course not.

There are so many great things to experience in life. Why numb your consciousnesses and dull it? Why give up the chance to create the life of your dreams? Yes it’s hard work. But what’s the alternative? Spending your days working at a job that’s acceptable but not great? Looking forward to that week of vacation where you forget about the rest of the year? Why not try to create a life you don’t want to forget about?

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Contrasts

A simple warm meal tastes best when we are exhausted and hungry from work. A few minutes just sitting on the couch relaxing, doing nothing feels the greatest after an intense exercising session. A piece of chocolate tastes better when we have been waiting for it. The more we really want something, work for it and are tested on our patience the more we enjoy finally having it.

That which comes easily is easily taken for granted. 

So go for the more difficult goals instead of the ones that are easy. Even though it takes more guts, work and persistence, the end result should be more than worth it. Additionally it prevents us from taking our life for granted, which is the biggest mistake we can make. That which is taken for granted is not appreciated and easily wasted.